Prepare questions about divorce by mutual consent

If available, note marriage details, any existing proceedings or orders, and the matters needing discussion, such as children, finances or property.

Separate points both people appear to agree on from unresolved issues. State your own understanding without presenting it as a completed settlement.

Ask which law applies, how consent is assessed, what steps and timing need verification, and how unresolved arrangements should be addressed.

Discuss these notes with an advocate of your choice, or open NALSA’s legal-aid information to ask about professional assistance. The service determines eligibility and representation.

You have a clear list of questions for professional advice before committing to terms.

If the other person’s position is uncertain, say so. Do not assume a joint procedure is available.